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The soccer publication is oddly dull, yet oddly captivating. Even title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently is used by a hit theatrical production, an forthcoming television program, and a public letter authored by the manager in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England is not formally related to those. It exists as an oddity in the Dear England Multiverse, a volume about guidance: a classically dull elite football manager theme that Southgate adheres to doggedly, using the words “leadership”, “guiding” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across its 336-page length.

Inquiries Explored

“Who are the leaders? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” Southgate inquires in the opening, outlining his stall, but choosing not to ask “How are leaders?”, questions probably reserved for a future volume.

Additionally, this publication features a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an attempt in passive-aggressive personal vindication, in almost-but-not-quite expressing the actual thing, jumping skillfully from lingering grievance to fresh pain across a series of graphs, corporate platitudes and references about historical figures.

Engagement

Engaging with the text is like listening to your family members having a polite but intensely emotional argument in the adjacent space while you’re trying to focus on a corporate presentation named “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also challenging to put down, as the author keeps drifting near to a topic you truly wish to hear about, before suddenly changing tack.

Insights

Readers will find always news headlines in books of this nature, due to the peeled-eyeball interest with the role of England manager. The most notable instances are: he made up his mind he was absolutely going to resign as England manager after supporters hurled cups at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to abandoning the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his squad members were targeted with slurs; he pioneered the idea of dedicated restart experts and the entire league in the Premier League is now following his lead; he has now abandoned his enthusiasm for football, a surprising confession briefly included in a single paragraph at the conclusion.

Guiding England through a era of rage, optimism, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a grueling experience. The scars are obviously still unhealed.

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Throughout much of the book, the text is flooded with an computer-generated verbal clutter of standard guidance discourse. Review editions of this book were provided with critics under secrecy pacts prior to release, presumably out of fear someone might leak that “difficult conversations can, by their nature, be difficult”, that you should always look before you leap, that leadership happens where evolution intersects with compassion.

Emotional Core

There is nonetheless authentic feeling within. Leading England through a era of anger, aspiration, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a brutal journey. The bruises are clearly still unhealed, even if expressed in a buzzword-filled reinvention of the classic leader narrative: how my decisions were correct about everything from the start.

Notable Cases

The book’s introductory section, presented as gripping recollections of the championship match of Euro 2024, is all about how good he really was at tactical substitutions (the primary Southgate gripe being he was not good at substitutes). Subsequently, he explores great depth about how he oversaw the deciding game of 2021 impeccably – notably the unsuccessful tiebreaker – because he complied with a established procedure, which suggests that bringing on young players in the closing stages to take the most important kick of their existence was sensible and right.

That approach was validated by a winning tiebreaker against Switzerland four years later after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were striving to put on a jumper the inside out. “The control we exerted in that tiebreaker was simply exciting,” the author writes, amid equating the showing to elite military units killing a notorious figure. Dear me.

Missed Opportunities

On the occasions we come near to a disclosure, he withdraws from naming names or providing the juice. We hear there were challenging England individuals who insisted on more attention, maybe because they were pampered early in their careers. But as you expect hopefully, Southgate is already shifting into a topic titled a leadership concept, which claims that instead of a grouping of attributes or values, culture is in fact a phenomenon that is developed by, unfortunately, stop, that’s sufficient.

Strengths

Within the stronger parts are when Southgate writes about the incremental process of fostering resilience in young people, or how he attempted to define Englishness more coherently and more helpfully than any other figure in the limelight. Best of all, there is a truly absorbing account of that harrowing match in Sofia where England’s African heritage squad members were subjected to vile treatment (and later defended robustly by their manager).

Genuine Ending

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